Hey hey! Saw this entry as a referral to my take on attachment styles:
https://jane-mean.medium.com/understanding-attachment-styles-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly-2f7d9eb7b82a
Couldn’t locate the link though, probably missed it :)
Good view on the relationship dynamic, and congrats on working on your attachment style!
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